My PC is a pretty old one.When few tabs are open in my browser and I'm shifting between them it goes frozen and I used to say that bad four letter word.It happens frequently when I read some blogs at night and it drives away my happy thoughts like a surge but couldn't help it.couldn't afford for a proper upgrade too.And yesterday when I said this with a friend he asked me does it remain frozen that I have to restart when it happens every time.And I said "No". "Oh! Not that bad." That's his words.And I was thinking to my self " yes of course.Not that bad."At least I do not have to restart it.do I ?"So now when this happens I simply let it go saying "Not that bad".Yeah.It doesn't speed up my machine.But it save peace in my mind.
We come across lots of times like this in our day to day life which irritates us.Like when a stone thrown into a clear,still stream, it crashes the peace of our mind.Does it do any better? Absolutely not.So we need to find a way out of this.
Not that bad.
One thing we can do is the thing my friend said."Oh! not that bad". Please do remember that it's not the worst thing that could happen to you.As an example if you are jobless, be thankful to the destiny.Because it's not that bad.Still you are a healthy person and there are people in this world who are ready to pay any cost to be healthy.Count your blessings at that moment. If you start counting them you'll be surprised and your sorrows would be kicked away.
Everything do happen for a reason.
The second thing you can do is think that it happened for a reason.It worked for me in numerous times.Once I lost a relationship which I valued a lot.I hit the bottom of the emotions and I was broken from inside but couldn't afford showing it to the outside world because of my ego or whatever it is.But it showed.After suffering all the way eventually I read the magic words somewhere. "Everything happens for a reason". And after few months, surprisingly I found that it's true which means I saw a side which I've never seen before and understood that if she was with me I could have suffer more than this.
Everything do happen for a reason and sooner or later it will become visible.It's just a matter of time.So have a little faith when when you are down.
You've seen streams which flows in comfortable ways.And also you've seen streams with lots of bends and rocks covering its way.Which picture has carved into deep in your mind? Yeah.But you know it's the hard way to flow.That's life.When you face and got over the troubles, it adds more colors to the picture of your life.So do not let little ants devour your piece of cake called happiness.
Just use Chrome. Then it wont freeze. JJ
Nice ideas man..
Thanks keheliya I'll try Chrome. Thanks a lot.
It's not always easy to keep in mind when you're going through a tough time, but I do believe that everything happens for a reason. It's important to remember this. When I look back on bad things that have happened to me, I realize that they had a purpose and they have made me the person I am today.
Ah.Same here.The things ever happened to me got me stand here today no matter how worse they were.If they didn't happen to me, well then I would be a someone else.And probably my blog also won't be here.he he....
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Hi Vikum - I love the picture of little ants devouring the happiness cake that you conjure up!
I too think that everything happens for a reason - thinking this way makes life far less stressful, I think. Thanks for this post! All the best - R
P.S. computers freezing are definitely bad ;+)
Are you sure about what you say?
do you relay believe that every thing happen for the reason ....
I tell you this
you try to make your mind by thinking like that
what I believe is that is the nature of human being ...
..
But my friend we have to fight back where it possible because everything that happen may not be a faver
for us .............. And don't let anything to loose without fight if it worth that...
When I travel to colombo and hits a traffic jam .... can i say "not bad" ? Although the solutions to the problem seem very far away, you have to do something about it. Just saying "not bad" will feel you good, but country will be at the same place. And the future generations too have to say "not bad" other than "good".
For the trafic jams, you need new roads. And again for your browser thing, reinstall it, change to chrome or go Linux.
Yeah Robin.Me too have used to think in that way and it' s true that it reduces the stressfulness.Thanks for the comment.Have a nice day!
This one is Practical,Coz I USED it
in a crucial situation!!
N I just want u to know that
I'll use this
whenever its possible!!!
Thanks Vikz!
Great message of this post. I love what you said about, " do not let little ants devour your piece of cake called happiness." Well said - my friend. :-)
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